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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, you're saying things have changed, that he's made an effort, that he seems to recognize he made past mistakes. You need to forgive and move on. Focus on your present and future, rather than dwelling on the past. Wallowing on past wrongs that the other person has made an effort to address is only hurting you.[/quote] That's basically what I told my therapist. She cautioned me against that type of thinking, because with his drinking habits, what am I going to do if he starts the same behavior 5 years from now? Hanging out with his family 5 days a week and gettinb hammered? This sass 2 years of constant behaviour versus six months of moderate change.[/quote] You keep giving us important information piecemeal. I feel like I don't have a frame of reference anymore, but you certainly seem unhappy in your marriage. [/quote]
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