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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Female here (married, so not asking for myself, just curious). In my circle of friends, a guy has just started dating a woman. While talking about her with us, the guys agreed that it's a bit concerning that she has invited him over to her place because that's slutty, but she hasn't yet slept with (or even kissed) him which is a very good sign. General consensus is that any girl who would sleep with a guy within the first few dates isn't dating material, and that ideally they should wait anywhere form a few weeks to a few months.

Now, maybe my logic is flawed, but to me it seems like if you will only date women who can go without sex for several weeks, you end up with a girlfriend or wife who can go without sex for several weeks. And surprise, most of these guys I know who are with "good girls" are also unhappy in sexless LTR/marriages.

So I'm trying to understand the appeal of a woman who really isn't that into sex. To me, if you want an exciting sex life while married, you should go for women who are eager for it, rather than the mythical Madonna-like woman who has zero interest in men until you come along. Not saying that women who are sleeping around with multiple people are ideal (I wouldn't date a man like that), but if the chemistry and attraction are there, what's wrong with a woman who wants to enjoy sex early on? Why does that automatically exclude a woman from being taken seriously?
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As usual, a woman is over-analyzing something very simple.

Men (who are looking for something quote/unquote serious eventually) don't necessarily want a woman who would screw them the first night, but we sure as hell aren't waiting any longer than the third date. If you're not putting out by the third date, men with options are moving on to greener pastures.

Myself personally, I'm not looking to get married, so I want to have sex as fast as possible so I can evaluate if you are worth my time and attention. If we don't work out, that's fine, but I'm not sticking around past the third date so know that up front.

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In other words, you have no idea what men who want marriage to a good girl really like, because you are interested only in sex and never a relationship.[/quote]

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