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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's obviously a personal decision for each person.  I think a lot of the decision is based upon the overall dynamics.   For instance my situation.

Laugh if you must, but this is my story.

She has bullied me to sit on the toilet to urinate.  Has restricted me to sex 3-4x a year for 25+ years.  No bjs during marriage.
NO sex during pregnancy.  Generally, she is extremely sexually selfish.

F_ _ _ NO I'm not getting a V.  I retain my right to produce sperm.  It's the only damn manly thing about me she can't take away.[/quote]

And you think this will increase the sex? I mean, it's your body, so do what you want, but don't expect it to improve the situation!

Another woman here whose DH will be getting snipped now that my childbearing is done. Childbearing that, while not potentially life-threatening like OP's, involved significant medications to stay pregnant, some of which could have long-term effects for me. So it was no walk in the park.

I made it clear to DH before we got married that I would never use hormonal birth control due to medical conditions in my family, and I tried the Paragard (non-hormonal IUD) and hated it. We relied on condoms before having kids. Now that we just had our second, it's back to condoms or DH gets the snip. His choice. I am ok either way. He opted for the snip. Should he ultimately choose not to go through with it, we'll be using condoms for a damn long time, but that's his call. [/quote]

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