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[quote=Anonymous]What a terrible first world problem! You wake up to find that you have $300,000. It sounds like your DH is fiscally conservative and doesn't have complete confidence that you are too. $220,000 a year is a good level of income and your DH must be putting aside a good amount every month to build that up. Sit down with him and figure out a budget that allows that level of savings to be maintained or increased and stick with it. Pay off the credit card as interest costs are obscene. Consider a debit card instead. My DW is very budget conscious and I've always socked a lot away in deferred comp, 401k's etc for college expenses and retirement. She knows I'm doing it but I doubt she knows how much is in those accounts. I'm not hiding it, she just hasn't asked and while she pays all the bills I manage all of our investments. I believe she has a good feel for our total net worth and if she wanted a complete accounting I'd have no problem sharing it with her. Net, you two need to find a way to trust each other. [/quote]
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