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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Don't let DCUM get under your skin on this - people will do a lot of projecting here and you're going to get responses that don't accurately reflect your situation.[/b] If he's been doing this your whole marriage, so 20 years, then it's probably not been a ton of money each month.  If he's had an interest in stock research since he was a teen, then this is probably "hobby money" in his mind.  I get why you're upset, I would be too, but when you dig into it, the reality may not be all that awful.  Stocks have had a huge run up recently - if that's 20 years of investing it didn't have to be a ton of money monthly.

I will say that if you were reviewing your tax returns you would have seen this though.  There would have been a 1099 and reported income and such.  I think you can take this as a warning shot that you need to be more involved in your joint financial life.   In your shoes I'd consider taking him with you to a Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University class.  He talks slot about debt, but also more comprehensive ideas about your family finances that could be helpful to you guys. [/quote]

+1 to all of this and especially the bolded part.[/quote]

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