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[quote=Anonymous]No but I do think that people who make broad generalizations about other people aren't very intelligent.
There are so many different reasons why marriages fail. Some people definitely married too young, ignored red flags, or settled for the wrong person. Many others divorce because their spouse or circumstances changed dramatically. 
I used to think that people who divorced should have just worked harder at their marriages (especially if kids were involved). That was when I was happily married before mental illness and substance abuse turned my ex into someone I didn't recognize. We dated for 5 years before marriage, got married at age 30 and were married for 15 years before things fell apart. 
I come from a very functional family of origin and by most measures would be considered quite intelligent. Sorry I don't fit your narrative on divorced people. I imagine most divorced people don't. Does it make you feel more secure to assume there is something wrong with those who divorce? Despite your ridiculous judgments, I hope you never have to go through some of the terrible things that many suffer in bad marriages.  Please stop passing judgement on people like this. You have no idea what goes on behind closed doors.[/quote]

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