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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Double standards, OP. You are angry with her yet you don't see that she has a right to be angry with you? Gaslighting much? You carry on like this if you want to, but don't complain in the future when you are completely estranged from your daughter. Actions have consequences, and YOU started it, not her, not your wife.
No means no. That doesn't apply only to rape cases. [/quote]

OP here.

She has a right to be angry with whoever or whatever she chooses.  I have always told her that open and honest emotion will always be welcome in our home.  The price for that is that you MUST talk it over that day, no exceptions.  So you can come in, call me a "fucking piece of shit asshole", slam the door, and throw things in your room.  But in order to have that right, you must be willing to tell me WHY you feel that way in a clear and reasonable conversation when you have calmed down, and allow me to respond and understand so we might be able to sort it out.

I am kind of surprised how much response this thread has gotten.  It's been quite eye opening and informative.  I truly appreciate everyone's input and point of view.

But I must say, and you guys don't know me or the whole situation (which is impossible even in the best of forums), if this kind of incident causes us to be estranged in life, I will be heartbroken and hopefully get over it.  But I will never apologize for the type of father that I am, and continue to be.  Not for one second.

Stubborn?  Maybe.  Knowing with absolute certainty that I am a good dad who has never been unkind to or raged at my child and am doing my best (which is providing her a pretty nice life)?  Absolutely.

Guys, the buck has to stop somewhere and all I'm saying is that any household where a 14yo has any control over a 50yo is flawed in many ways.

Flame away...    [/quote]

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