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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sooooo ... what do you actually want out of a partner?  And I'm not talking demographics.[/quote]

This. I've scrolled through this thread. I'm 35, AA, married to a white guy, with an MA.

Dating as an educated black woman is hard! To me, it felt like the more educated I got, the less likely I was to associate with black men. Thew few I worked with were much older or not particularly educated and it felt like we never clicked. I agree with the people that mention looking at alumni meet ups, or interest groups. Don't be afraid to date outside of your race. If you do want a black man though, the competition is fierce for the well educated ones - you might need to meet a guy who works in trades, they are just as nice.

I used dating websites as a means of introduction - I stopped chatting with men on there and went straight to "want to meet up?" (always somewhere safe, public, and letting my friends know where I was). I did meet some interesting people I didn't mesh well with, but I learned a lot about myself and found DH.

Good luck to you! [/quote]

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