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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, I'm 35 and my base salary exceeds OP's income requirement by over 6 figures. But I'm married and have two kids. My two best friends also meet the income threshold (banking and medicine, respectively) but they too are married.  Oddly enough, we all married our college girlfriends.

OP is trying to shoot a really narrow gap in terms of men she's looking for. They exist. But the reality is guys earning that salary at that age are mostly already hitched. So she's really looking for a narrow subset of men and I would offer up that an attractive single mid-30s guy making that type of salary is not heading into a serious relationship any time soon.

OP's best bet are probably senior associates in big law. [/quote]
From my experience, all single big law senior associates have serious personality/psychological defects. A non-insigificant number are spectrum, as well as secretly gay and then there are the secret psychopaths. Best hope would be to find the relatively normally but seriously awkward introvert.[/quote]

I can attest to this with my own anecdote.  Have a family member (in law) making $$$ in biglaw in another city.  He is, apparently, very competent in his field but can't be trusted to wash his own underwear, ever, not even in school when he had to.  He would go and buy new ones.  Many other stories like that.  Not sure how he sustained this for years.  He brags about not having to do any childcare (married) except for two hours of scheduled superficial interaction on weekends.  He's also very rude, a total ass, when he's not "prioritizing" you - like he doesn't give a shit unless, I don't know, if you matter to his business.  Obviously I am only family, and haven't seen him at his job too much.  Something is definitely wrong/off with him.  The day he met me he was really funny and charming and I liked him.  After that, he acted like I didn't exist.  Super strange.

His wife is a total bitch, super controlling, probably some big anxiety issues and a big liar - but I think she fits him because she just tells him what to do and think she runs his life.  Perfect.[/quote]

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