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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As for having joint accounts-my parents were in my accounts and I was on a few of theirs in case something happened to them or me and we needed to access the account. However, they never used my accounts and I never used theirs. [/quote]
Op here.

His mom wrote checks from his bank account. Recently. He paid $696 for their electricity bill. It's too weird for me. [/quote]

Eek!

I have a friend similar to your fiance whose ex-fiance dumped him, in particular because he was paying for many family members' expenses. My friend is a Russian Jew, and I guess that is somewhat cultural for them. He just recently got engaged to a new woman, another Russian Jew, and they are much happier than he was with his ex-fiance because they apparently are on the same page around this kind of thing.

Personally I cannot imagine, gahhh. Sometimes my DH and I will pay for some things for his mom, but we always discuss it first and it is never a given. Anyway, I agree with everyone else, get out now. You will both find someone else more appropriate for you. Good luck!! [/quote]

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