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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has quite a few female friends from before I met him when he was in grad school. These are long term friendships that have never been romantic. I have no problem with him going out to drinks and/or dinner with them when they're in town. These are the only women he ever goes out to dinner/drinks with, all his other friends are men. I'm not going to police his behavior, I'm fairly certain he won't cheat and if he does, he knows what the consequences will be. [/quote] As a woman with a number of guy friends from college, I want to say: THANK YOU. These relationships are about as platonic as it gets between the opposite genders, and to me the guys are really like brothers. I'm not saying don't bring up something specific if it bothers you, but having had exes who became exes because they suspected my guy friends, I can say acting this way just makes the accuser look ridiculous. Having said all that, we all know each other's spouses and hang out in groups and the spouses are always more than welcome (and for the most part we all get along well).[/quote]
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