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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have had young AA men compliment me but they do it in the way that it sounds genuine and complimentary without ever being  creepy. I have not figured it out how they can be so very charming and effortless about it.  I do not think an Asian or Latin man could do the same without sounding like a creep, and the same sentence by a White man would be stalker like!  I am Asian, BTW.  [/quote]

It's called fear of being called a racist.[/quote]

LOL.  No, its not that. Some men can compliment in a matter of fact way and it sounds natural and genuine coming from their mouths, I think usually it is young AA men, because they are comfortable in the presence of women and mostly they tend to have more female friends growing up.  Whites, Asians and Latinos come across as saying it as a "pick up" line.  And that makes it creepy. [/quote]

I'd only admit this on an anonymous forum but this is not it for me. I feel more comfortable rolling my eyes at or straight up arguing with a white guy I think is being inappropriate but I get scared sometimes if it's another ethnicity, or, I'm embarrassed to admit, a different class. Ie, trailer trash lolling white guy would make me nervous too. If I'm scared I'm less likely to fight back.

[b]I will say that there is a certain kind of black guy who really can give salacious compliments in a way that feels fun and flirty that seems to be almost exclusive to them. I think it's because it's not leering its like they just genuinely enjoy beautiful women, there's no agenda. [/b]

For the most part though complimenting women out of the blue is very hard to pull off non creepily so I'd avoid it[/quote]

Agree to the bolded.  I also think that we can agree that cat-calls and obscene verbal harassment was not what was being talked about here. [/quote]

nah, it's the secret desire of many women to have a bbc experience that precludes them to think of this as rude or creepy.  it's ok to admit you're turned on by AA guys complimenting you.[/quote]

I'm the PP. No this is not it at all. I really don't know how to describe it. It's something about how they just seem delighted to see a pretty lady. This is not universal, I think plenty of guys hitting on me of all ethnicities are creepy AF. This is a really specific thing. And I think it really has to do with feeling literally NO pressure. It's just like they're astounded to see a pretty face and can't help themselves telling you. It's weird. [/quote]

Stop responding to the guy who keeps bringing up race and racism. It's obvious he's using this thread to fuel his fetish, as evidenced by using porn terms (BBC). [/quote]

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