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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thanks for the perpectives.  Especially the thoughtful one noted previously.

I do want my husband to be happy in job - which is why I've supported him doing so for so long. But right now my focus has shifted from him having a job he loves to our kids being able to go to good/decent public schoolsand to be able to host grandparents / siblings from out of state, hosting our own holidays, building equity, belonging to a community where people stick around   I'm willing to move out of this expensive area to realize that since after 10 years we haven't figured out how to make it work. [b]Both jobs are downtown w tough commutes to cheaper areas[/b].

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Oh, so you don't want to have to commute (like 90% of people that live in this area)?  Sounds like you're the only one holding yourself back, OP.[/quote]

This commuter here from Leesburg and my spouse who is also a downtown commuter are now laughing at this nonsense from our 5500 sq ft house.  Its an hour and 10 minutes on a bus where people are mostly asleep in the a.m or watching videos on a kindle.  [/quote]

That's awesome for you, but not everyone has the same preferences. I have a 25 min commute from close in ARL I HATE bc in my mind my 10 min walking commute in Manhattan was better. For me to jump from 10 or 25 min to 70 min on a freaking bus would be a dealbreaker.[/quote]

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