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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex and I fight about two things. One is politics, so now I just try like hell never to bring up anything related.  (I voted for Hillary, he voted for Trump but I think he regrets it a little.)

The other is little things about how we raise our daughter.  He has a tendency to be a hypocrite about stuff.  Like he'll get on my case because I gave her cheerios for breakfast (instead of something with more protein.)  But he'll send her to school with an Arby's roast beef sandwich in her lunch box, and then there was the time when McDonald's started their all day breakfast and they literally went to McDonald's for egg mcmuffins 3 times a week for 3 weeks.

So yeah.  Hypocrite.[/quote]

You don't fight about sex, money, how clean/messy the house is, who does what chores? Wow.[/quote]

Me neither. Sex, we have enough, money, I don't bring up, the house is mostly clean, [b]if I want a chore done, I do it[/b].[/quote]

See, I'm not willing to do all the chores. I'm not just going to suck it up and be a martyr filled with resentment just to avoid confrontation.  I'm not going to do every single doctor's appointment, camp schedule, vacation plan, all the dishes, the laundry, birthday parties, the yard work etc etc etc, which is what would happen if I did what you did.[/quote]

But that isn't how it work, actually. I don't do all the chores. I totally am a non-confronter, but DH does his share of the chores. And if he wants them done his way, he does them. I think this works because we both do a lot, as opposed to both of us shirking.[/quote]

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