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Reply to "Is this ridiculous? DH and I disagree over whether to have another child"
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[quote=Anonymous]I always wanted 3. DH would have been happy to stop with 1 but was on board for 3. Once we got to 3, I realized (and was totally surprised to realize) that I wanted one more. DH's initial reaction was that I moved the goalposts. After some time, he was in the "maybe" camp. Now that #3 is STTN, DH has said he would love another in a few years, as long as circumstances are right (finances, balance with the other kids). So we have decided to revisit in a few years. I am lucky that I have time. If he says he's not on board and I still want one, I will come to terms with it, probably grieve it quietly then move on and be grateful and happy for the 3 wonderful kids I have. I agree that #s matter -- if DH was not on board with a #2 when we had agreed on more than 1, I would have had a really hard time coming to terms with it. But since 4 would be more than I had always imagined, it seems easier for me.[/quote]
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