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[quote=Anonymous]I have 4. I would probably keep having them if I could. I love having a big family. But, I am also done. I just had to decide that the time, money, attention, and, frankly, my desire to have a life of my own, too, meant that it was time to stop. My DH loves kids, too, and was never going to pull the plug either (he's getting snipped Friday). We finally realized we couldn't have everything (5, 6, 7 kids and, and, and), and we're in our 40s, and if we wanted life after kids (which we do), it was time to be done. I think your DH knows it's not just one more kid. Some people never feel complete, and chasing that feeling is a mistake. If he is done, you need to really think about what it would take for you to feel done, and get thee to a therapist to get there.[/quote]
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