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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Slightly different perspective here:  my DH comes from a wealthy family, had significant personal assets from his own earnings, knew I had no assets and student loan debt, and did not ask me for a prenup.  His parents have given him over $400K during our marriage for various significant expenses (down payment, new cars), and we have no prenup.  I also got a reasonably valuable engagement family engagement ring and some other family jewelry (his family).

Not expecting to get divorced (although only married 3 yrs, together 8), but if we did divorce, I would not try to claim any of the assets DH brought into the marriage or gifts from his parents given to us during the marriage or the jewelry, because it would not be ethically right to claim them.  We have children, but I make a good income (although much less than my DH), I didn't marry him for his money, and I can support myself and our kids.  Granted, I couldn't afford to have us live like we do now, but we would be fine.

[b]I don't understand people trying to get money that isn't meant for them[/b] when they get divorced.  [/quote]

I'd love to see how you'd react if your husband suddenly started spending all of his disposable income on another woman (and family!) while married to you, especially if he turned around and told you "I don't understand why you're upset I'm spending money that isn't meant for you." [/quote]

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