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Reply to "Without being told, how did you know about an affair?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ According to you, perhaps not to him.[/quote] I had this same thought. The cheated upon often claim that all was great. No. No it wasn't. Not claiming your spouse is justified in what s/he did, but there is a problem between the two of you if s/he feels the need to step out.[/quote] No, the problem is with the cheater and their inability to communicate their needs to their spouse.[/quote] I cheated, and I communicated my needs to my husband, between just the two of us and with a counselor. He counldn't "hear" me because his denial was so strong. Men respond better to actions than words. He thought he was good in bed, and demonstrative of his love. He was neither. I told him so. He was genuinely shocked that I found someone else who did in fact listen to me.[/quote] ME ME ME. That's all I hear you saying. [/quote] Huh? - PP said it was the cheaters fault because they did not communicate THEIR needs. Then you blast this poster for explaining that she did attempt, in more than one way to communicate her needs, calling her selfish. So which is it? [/quote]
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