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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD14 read her mom's diary and told me.  It's been a tough few years.[/quote]

That's horrible[/quote]

Thanks.  We are still trying to work on our marriage, but of course DD told a few of her friends so basically our whole circle knows, as well as her AP's wife and children.  In a way that makes it easier.  But DD and DW have really struggled to get along.  I never though I'd use the words "moral authority" as it sounds so old fashioned, but when you do something really bad and the kids know, it becomes very hard to be a parent.  DD is really disrespectful of DW and when they fight, it's awful.  I don't really know what to do, some bells you just can't unring.[/quote]

I can't believe a grown woman kept a diary of her cheating.  She had to want to get caught on some level.  Good luck, you are a good man for trying to keep the family together[/quote]

I keep a journal of my EA at work to keep my sanity.  It would be very incriminating if discovered, but worth the risk to me for the therapeutic benefit.  [/quote]

Me, too. PA , though. Only recently did I shred the whole thing. I needed it to process. [/quote]

Maybe it's a female thing? I can't talk to anyone about it so I write. [/quote]

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