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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am trying not to participate in all the speculation about custody, but the idea that a man can kill his wife, cut off her family from the child during the investigation, be convicted, and then everything is left status quo as far as custody is just deeply troubling and offensive as a human being. I recognize it's all confidential and we won't get to know. I just hope the girl and Christine's family get justice.[/quote]

This is honestly what hurts me the most about this.  I’m projecting, of course, but if my DH murdered me, the pain would be a million times compounded if my son had to only have contact with his horrible family.  My family is the one he is closest to and has the deepest ties to and affection for.  Losing my son for all of them would be even worse than losing me, and it would greatly compound the loss to my son.  I don’t know anything about Banfield’s mother but if she is behind keeping the child’s maternal parents from her, then she is nearly as evil as her son.[/quote]

The would hopefully do what is in the best interest of your son. Regardless as to how different extended family members felt about it. Kids are not pawns used to punish people or reward other people. They are not the monetary prize in a civil suit. They are humans and people who use kids as pawns to punish or reward adults are terrible. Across the board. So that includes adults keeping kids away from family members  who love them, but it includes people who advocate for removing a child from a relatives home as punitive justice for that relative.[/quote]

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