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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I changed my name because I wanted us to be a family and not someone who's git the foot out of the door. Yes, my husband wouldn't have changed his, but we're not the same and we show love in different ways. Women who keep their nane because "men do too" simply don't get that.[/quote]
Sounds like your husband isnt as committed to your family if he wasnt willing to give up something as dumb as a name. Guess he must already have one foot out the door. Poor you. [/quote]

He is, but as I said, men and women show commitment differently. He provides for the family which is a big responsibility.[/quote]
Ugh what an awful life for him, just a cog in that capitalist machine. [b]Too bad you literally couldn't survive without him doing so. [/b]Why are you such a hypocrite?[/quote]

This is the dumbest statement I’ve read in awhile.  You clearly don’t know what the words “literally” or “survive” mean.

Yes dear, the very survival of this woman (and I suppose the entire human race) is [b]literally[/b] dependent upon middle managers and powerpoint presentations.  LOL[/quote]

Funny that you mention this. I know someone  who was married to a middle manager. He made around 90 to 110k and she was a SAHM. She had a degree, but stopped using it as soon as the child was born. She lived with him in an apartment he purchased before marriage and he fed her and their children for 9 years or so. Then they had a nasty divorce and he managed to hide many of his assets. She got very little after divorce and her degree was useless after so many years. She relies on meagre government help and whatever her family, who doesn't have much more money either, can provide. She also spent more than a year couch surfing and using family shelters. "Literally" and "survive" fit pretty well given the context. [/quote]

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