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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A good looking man with pockets stuffed full of cash having to PAY a woman for sex....LOL.[/quote]

He's not paying for sex. He's paying for a relationship dynamic that is different from what he has at home. I am the NP from a few pages back who was in a near-identical relationship. [b]The guy I was with enjoyed keeping his wife on a tight leash financially while spending crazy amounts of money on me. Money was something they fought about and, fortunately for him, he was the one who earned it all so he could use it control her. [/b]We didn't have that dynamic in our relationship and he enjoyed doing things for me that were completely over-the-top. As another PP pointed out, [u]guys like this do whatever the fuck they want[/u]. Their choices probably won't make sense to you, because you aren't that kind of person.[/quote]

That's sick. There's no way I would want to associate with a guy like that. That's abusive behavior. [/quote]

I didn't really put it together till years into our relationship. She still had plenty of nice things, a big house, help, vacations, etc., but he would use all of that as leverage against her. If she wanted to know where he was going or questioned him about something, she was an ungrateful bitch who needed to spend less time questioning him and more time trying to make him happy. Eventually he began to treat me the same way. The whole situation was gross, but I will never be with an emotionally abusive person again in the future. As far as I know, the wife is still trading her soul for horses and St. John suits. There's nothing quite like his and her STD testing before your 25th anniversary trip to Nevis![/quote]

OP, I hope you wouldn't put up with this kind of treatment. Do you have any reason to believe he is emotionally abusive to his wife? Is there a lot of gaslighting going on?[/quote]

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