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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yup the have it all thing is a myth [b] the only way the women have it all is if the Man is the SAH parent[/b] fact It's great that both people can work now,t trying to do that and riasing kids is going to cause stress in any marriage Women you need your DHs to be involved at home otherwise it won't work out[/quote] I am a SAH dad. Our marriage is not what we want it to be. The fact is *she* has been the one to work long hours and have an emotional affair, and the stress of young kids has been an issue. She works a ton of hours. Her home-work life is totally out of whack. Hard to say she, or we, have it all now... We hit a low point, are hurting, but working on our marriage. But no, just having a SAH dad is not the be-all, end-all. And, I should say, as a SAH dad I get so annoyed by the notion that men are incompetent in all these ways. Some might be, some are lazy, some are intimidated by the task, some just have no interest. But in most child-rearing activities, I'd say I do as well or better than most women I know. Some men are actually capable... [/quote]
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