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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another tracker here. We've had sex 14 times this year. [/quote]
I'm sorry.[/quote]

Thanks. It's not great. We've had discussions about low frequency being a problem in our marriage. Theoretically, she thinks that once a week would be a healthy frequency. In practice, this hasn't happened. I asked her to read a book I thought would be helpful; she read about 30 pages and now it's gone unread for a few months.

I posted in one of the other threads about how this has led to increased porn use by me, which - as I age - seems to be leading to some performance issues on my part. That, in turn, makes the sex not great and, I can see a downward spiral emerging. If I only have sex once a month, I feel the pressure to knock it out of the park whenever I get the opportunity. When that doesn't happen, I have another month to dwell on it. So, maybe we'll have to give scheduling a try. I'm not sure if she'll be up for it or if she'll regard it as pressure on her end that will make sex less enjoyable. [/quote]
I'm one of the PPs from the other thread.  You and I are in exactly the same situation.  We talk about it, she'll work on it, nothing changes, so we talk about it again.  We'll keep at it and I'll keep trying to avoid the porn usage since that kills my chances of success if she surprises me by being ready to go one night.[/quote]

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