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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another tracker here. We've had sex 14 times this year. [/quote]
I'm sorry.[/quote]

Thanks. It's not great. We've had discussions about low frequency being a problem in our marriage. Theoretically, she thinks that once a week would be a healthy frequency. In practice, this hasn't happened. I asked her to read a book I thought would be helpful; she read about 30 pages and now it's gone unread for a few months.

I posted in one of the other threads about how this has led to increased porn use by me, which - as I age - seems to be leading to some performance issues on my part. That, in turn, makes the sex not great and, I can see a downward spiral emerging. If I only have sex once a month, I feel the pressure to knock it out of the park whenever I get the opportunity. When that doesn't happen, I have another month to dwell on it. So, maybe we'll have to give scheduling a try. I'm not sure if she'll be up for it or if she'll regard it as pressure on her end that will make sex less enjoyable. [/quote]

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