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[quote=Anonymous]I can see both sides, yours and hers. Her DD is your granddaughter and unless you had excluded several other granddaughters, then I can see why could interpret it as a snub. But, your comment that that picture is for her and her mother and her DD, that would sting. She does sound sensitive, but all she wanted is for her DD to be in that picture. If you just omitted the comment and then refrained from telling her how her DD didn't belong in that picture, she probably wouldn't have been hurt. I think you didn't mean anything bad, just didn't think what you were saying. If you really mean it, yes it is hurtful. Now, I would never have brought it up, but if you life in the same town and it is not difficult to get her DD in the picture, your comment about 4 generations was fine, but it did exclude one, so I think she was picking on that little "fine print," but you saying that her DD is not part of this picture, that was just thoughtless and makes me wonder why do you feel that her DD, who is your blood granddaughter doesn't belong in that pic. If you said, I wish my other granddaughter was in it, that would have been fine. So sensitive DIL, thoughtless MIL. And I am usually on MIL sides in these posts.[/quote]
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