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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She may have you babysit this weekend but she will see you as free labor rather than as a cherished woman in her child's (and her) life. The wedge you constructed will be there too. and you have helped her design and build it for her daughter too. You may have been 100% right (wow science apparently can back you up!) but you really lost something here OP - especially as you continue to build your defenses and cling to your righteousness. I am a new MIL and I keep note of acts like this as guides of how not to be.[/quote]

This was a pic taken with my cell phone today when my daughter and I went to visit my mother. This wasn't planned[/quote]

It is NOT the photo - it was how you acted/responded to your DIL. You could have so easily said - isn't it amazing? I want to get one with Larla too! We should get all the girls in it - and then the boys. Have you done this with your mother?[/quote]

Yes. The DIL was really immature to have said anything. It's just a picture of the generations. Posting a photo on FB that doesn't include her kid is not offensive. Was she offended?

But op, your response us what was offensive. It doesn't matter that you have this opinion about what "generation" means. Instead of responding like pp suggested, you essentially said "no, your daughter isn't really one of us."

You should reach out and apologize. Just eat crow, and put it behind you. [/quote]

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