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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Marriage was not sexless. As a matter of fact, we were TTC while DH was cheating. So I'm really not sure where all of these PPs are getting this information.

That said, I sought a different, more tender, more intimate form of sex with my husband as I was/am both healing from childhood sexual abuse and my husband watched/es porn compulsively. It's a messy foundation. I can definitively say that I, at least, was unsatisfied with our sex life when I found out about the cheating.

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Way to hide bombshell material information until late in the thread.  Did your husband know about the childhood abuse prior to marrying you?[/quote]

You know, I hadn't even acknowledged it to myself until about a year into my marriage. Prior to that, the information had never integrated - does that make sense? So as soon as I accepted the information myself, I told my husband.  That was just over two years ago. I've now cut off the family member - and as a result, the rest of that side of the family.

I found out about his porn "habit" around the time I found out about the cheating, if you consider that important. (3x a day for years.) [/quote]

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