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[quote=Anonymous]OP. We talked several times throughout the day today. Around 5, he stopped by to say goodbye before heading home. He looked sad, I asked what happened and he said that she declined him again. It looked pathetic. I am now realizing that he might be using me because he doesn't get any physical contact from his wife. They haven't been close in 3+ months now. He asked if he could have a hug. I said yes. We hugged and and I was thinking why I am doing this. What do I get from this? Why do I need this? I have a husband who is waiting at home why I am here hugging this man who was rejected by his wife.

He then kissed my neck. And then he kissed my lips. And all this time I was thinking what the heck I am doing and why does it feel so pathetic. My body reacted to his in a usual way, but I didn't feel a connection. I felt like I was being used. I kissed him with all my passion for a minute, pulled away and said, "Let's never do that again." He apologized and left.

I need to remind myself that it is pathetic, he is pathetic, we are pathetic together. This is not going anywhere, except to a hole that will destroy my and my life.

Reading all the advice and common sense comments make me understand what I can lose: my family, my job, respect of my colleagues and children.[/quote]

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