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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don't know if people at work suspect anything. I don't think so. No one changed in how they talk to me, so I would think no.

I have not seriously thought about leaving yet. I think about it as a possibility and consider "what if" and "how" but I think I will be too afraid to act on it unless be become very serious with AP.[/quote]

I'm the counselor from this morning.

OP, you can't engage in any attempts to salvage your marriage if you're still seeing your AP. You can't. If you're in marriage counseling with your husband, that is something that both parties have to undertake in good faith for it to be effective. You continuing to cheat is NOT acting in good faith in the recovery process. This is why step 1 of marriage counseling for almost all couples who are in marriage counseling as a result of one person's affair is to break off the affair and have a no-contact policy with the AP. I really can't stress this enough.

Do you understand that? [/quote]

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