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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][bout the day, weekend plans, cooking, and fantasy football.

2) She isn't insecure in that way. But breaking her trust has put her into an emotional spiral. I told her it was totally my fault and a one time thing.[/quote]

OP which is it - was it completely your fault or does your wife need to "admit what she's done wrong"?

You sound like a child. I would also want a divorce; a grown man shouldn't need to be told how to keep the household running and how to demonstrate loyalty and remorse.[/quote]

It's my responsibility and I own my mistake. The texting was an escape for me. I did share my frustration with the division of labor. One example is that I initially took the morning duty since I have an easier time to get up, but as dd's schedule changed, I couldn't convince DW to take over the morning shift even if I was late to work. How I handled it became my problem.

Another poster mentioned how they would alternate between husband and wife to watch tv or mess with the computer. She somehow got the free time to sleep in on weekends and watch tv during week nights. This was way past the period where the baby needed so much attention.

I didn't need to be told what to do as I was doing it. When I told her things that needed to be done, that's when I get push back. Somehow I ended up doing a lot of work to what some house wives on dcum complain about their husbands.[/quote]

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