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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine you are at the grocery store, choosing some ground beef in those 1lb packs. Now imaging 50 of those injected all over your body. Do you not see how utterly unattractive that is? Do you not care how your partner might be completely turned off by this? It's not about how much you weigh, but [u]how much weight you've gained while married[/u]. If you have gained more than like 20 lbs, that makes you a horrible spouse. Sorry but regardless of all the other great/nice things you do, none of that can make up for your unattractive weight gain. Control your diet and lose the weight. You can do it. This is the first move every recent divorcee makes: loses weight to attract dates. Why not do it for your current spouse?[/quote] I have gained more than 20 pounds since we got married. But my husband has gained much more. So long as I gain less than he has, I guess I'm ok.[/quote] Agreed. Shame on him. But it seems maintaining weight isn't that important to you either. The big marital divide occurs when ONE spouse gains significant weight while the other maintains. Because clearly one side cares, the other doesn't. THAT is where the divorces happen.[/quote] Knowledge[/quote]
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