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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is also perfectly self-illustrating about why this issue does cause problems for some marriages. I can only imagine how it must feel to approach your spouse concerned about their ballooning weight and already feeling bad about how it makes you feel only for them to turn it around  and suggest that you only care about vanity whereas they are overweight because of their activism. Now you are made to be a shallow, selfish, vain person because you wonder what happened to the person you married and worry about their health. [/quote]

Oh my. You are the king of gas lighting. Poor you! Can't imagine how that feels![/quote]

I'm the king of gas lighting?? No no. That is the people who just insist that their focus on writing and yard work and their reading list made them overweight. And nobody better mention it or else they'll martyr themselves by saying they were just so devoted to taking care of everyone else while the spouse who DIDN'T gain 100 lbs only cared about vanity. [/quote]

Please. All you care about is yourself and how it makes you feel. Do you think there is any possibility that your spouse doesn't know that they have gained weight? The answer is no. So save yourself the faux concern and STfU. If it bothers you that much, leave. Otherwise shut your trap. You aren't concerned about your spouse. You are just a jerk. [/quote]

So, if you know it, fix it. [/quote]

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