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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is also perfectly self-illustrating about why this issue does cause problems for some marriages. I can only imagine how it must feel to approach your spouse concerned about their ballooning weight and already feeling bad about how it makes you feel only for them to turn it around  and suggest that you only care about vanity whereas they are overweight because of their activism. Now you are made to be a shallow, selfish, vain person because you wonder what happened to the person you married and worry about their health. [/quote]

Oh my. You are the king of gas lighting. Poor you! Can't imagine how that feels![/quote]

I'm the king of gas lighting?? No no. That is the people who just insist that their focus on writing and yard work and their reading list made them overweight. And nobody better mention it or else they'll martyr themselves by saying they were just so devoted to taking care of everyone else while the spouse who DIDN'T gain 100 lbs only cared about vanity. [/quote]

You spouse knows.  They live with you.  They know if you are actually concerned about them and their health or vain.  They also know if you are neglecting York young children and family in order to workout.[/quote]

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