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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP:
My first marriage was a sexless marriage (I was the DW and desperate to have sex, and my DH withheld for months, even a 2 year stretch and I understand your pain of feeling rejected on some level/emotionally and physically abandoned by your spouse and feeling like mere roommates -- it is a horrible, horrible feeling).   I later found out that my DH was depressed (thus, lower sex drive) and so he medicated but then those anti-depressants didn't do much to help the sex-drive, brought it to zero.  I suggest you find out if your DW has a depression issue/ go to a couples counselor - just make the appointment and announce you are going and she can come. Any IMAGO counselor in the area will do.  They are the best in my opinion.  I do not recommend divorce absent abuse or substance abuse issues - so respect your decision to stay together. Try to amen this work through counseling. I would imagine you both have built up resentment over the years and need to "unclog" what is bothering you that you are not talking about.

Also - go to Victoria's Secret and buy her a sexy corset/stockings and ask her to dress up for you. It might "shock" her into the mood. [/quote]

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