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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DW is a total 10, but she's never had to try to maintain it before. The women in her family were all similarly attractive until they had kids and never hit the gym after that. We're about to start trying for our first, and the thought of her never looking like she does right now again scares me. How can I convince her we'd be best off adopting? We'd love the kid just the same, biological parenting isn't "better" in any way, and it'd mean a much happier life for us together.

Before you ask, I'm hitting Equinox regularly, I'm doing my part and I'm regularly getting hit on by women on the street when I go for a run shirtless. And I totally understand that she's not going to look 35 forever. But there's a big gap between the women who are still making an effort to look good at 45 and the women who aren't, and I'd prefer not to be on the wrong side of that divide.[/quote]
I don't think you understand how children work.  It's not pregnancy and childbirth that changes women's bodies.  It's the drastic change in lifestyle that comes with a newborn child.

Say you adopt. What next? Do you think an adopted child doesn't need food, care, diaper changes, daycare pickups? Do you think they take no time at all? Do you think you can adopt the kid, put it on a shelf and that's where the story ends? Do you think you'll still hit the gym as much? Don't you WANT to spend time with your child? Shouldn't your wife?[/quote]

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