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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need a plan.

My H had an affair, and we are divorcing, but we are amicable... but with that comes rules. OW is done... no contact.

We have mutual friends and my H had to go to a work event and she could possibly be there. So we had a plan. If she shows up he leaves, no hi, no glance, just leave. When her friends started to show up, he left.

So you can't control him but your W has to tell you and you have to remain calm or she will stop telling you things.

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If you are divorcing why are their rules?[/quote]

+1. Divorce means it is over. Let it go.[/quote]

No not at all when you have kids.  The kids welfare will come first with a court.  Apparently she is a good mother![/quote]

Yeah but what this pp doesn't seem to get is that no matter how much of am ass her STBX is or was what's best for the kids is for it to be amicable. Pp is only willing to do what's best for her kids if her ex plays her game.

The way she describes it be wouldn't be able to attend soccer games on her days. That's bad no matter what he did for the kids whether she wants to admit it or not.

Agree with other pps that divorce means it's over, she's no longer allowed to judge his romantic partners[/quote]

If you have kids of course you are going to judge your ex partners choices.  The ability to anything about it is another thing. 
You care about your kids right ? [/quote]

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