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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you start your life in abject poverty or you end up with a serious illness (neither of which I would minimize) if you work hard and don't make any major mistakes (don't have a kid before you're married or ready to, do your homework and get good grades, major in a demand field, work hard at your job) it's not hard to find yourself on dry land (not millionaire mind you, but middle upper middle class). I tend to find that people (unless they started in abject poverty -- again not minimizing that -- inequality is a huge problem our country needs to deal with) that plan wisely and defer gratification in their teens and early 20s, don't have to be in such a shitty predicament in their 30s. YMMV.[/quote] Not really there is a U shaped curve in marital happiness. It has been studied for years of upper middle class families. Happiness declines for approximately 10 years, levels off for 4 years and increases as children leave and finances improve. This changes if there are more than 2 kids and if something catastrophic happens to you career. The problem is that some people try to fight reality. This is the reality, stop blaming your spouse, it is what it is. Kids are a drain. I think kids these days (and our days) were given too much and when the going get rough, they crumble. Find the bright side and stop complaining about the little things. [/quote] THREAD WINNER![/quote]
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