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[quote=Anonymous]In real life, I know plenty of middle eastern harpy women just like OP describes herself.  Basically, because they spend a lifetime have men control, belittle and judge their choices, the only one they can in turn do it to, are women like their daughters, sisters, aunts, cousins. It's really sad.

To the OP, I would say - every time your sister says you are wrong, say to yourself over and over "I am wrong. I am being critical in an attempt to control another person because I feel so unable to control my own life" Who knows - maybe after the 100th time you will develop some self awareness.

Basically OP - you are wrong and your sister is right.  You are hypercritical, judgmental, lack self awareness and have almost no ability to be an independent adult.  Your parents are controlling your life and you can't make choices and decisions without them.  You are angry at your sister because she becoming an actual adult and you are just waiting around for another adult male to step in and control your life so you don't need to do it for yourself.

Some people in life are self-starters and go-getters. That's your sister.  You are neither.

Also, your mom no doubt treats you the same way you treat your sister.  Being your mom's punching bag for criticism and her own sucky life, doesn't mean she loves you more or better. [/quote]

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