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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]These judging comments hurt. I'm currently divorcing my husband due to his anxiety disorder that was sucking the life out of me. [b]There was no future in which I could be happy with him.[/b] This isn't something I'll share with people though, it's his private business. And for that I'll apparently be judged[/quote]

You see?  and THAT right there is what we judge you for.  And the point of this.  you knew about his disorder (or should have) before you married him and rather than figuring out a way to make it work, it's all about YOU being HAPPY.  I hope you don't have kids.  The woman in our neighborhood has older kids, but it's the same attitude:  I"M not happy.  I can't be happy.  ME ME ME unfortunately at the expense of the family.[/quote]

You're absurd - a spouse who refuses to address a mental health issue and is therefore unable to fulfill almost any aspect of being a life partner broke vows long before the person deciding to divorce.  As someone said - its not a suicide pact or vow to suffer for 50 years, who does that possibly serve?  What sane spouse would want their SO to do that on their behalf?  Why in the world would you want someone to feel forced to stay with you if they were very unhappy with you in an unsolvable way? Why would you want kids to see that model? [/quote]

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