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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No of course he's not. I love him very much and we are a much better match for each other than our first spouses and I want to be with him. But neither of us have experienced the family aspect yet, that's why I'm trying to get a realistic picture of what that will be so I can decide if I can/want to do it[/quote] Well, imagine instantaneously having to like and financially support two children. They are not related to you, and they are not likely to be fond of you. They are about to hit their pre-teen years. They are expensive and generally a pain in your behind. It takes a big heart to accept this reality, and few women are capable of this. If you have your own children, you will probably be resentful that they will have to share their father's finite time, energy, and money. I could probably see it if you had two of your own already. But becoming a mom of two overnight is not for most. I know women do this, but it's a long tough road.[/quote]
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