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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP says her child is in daycare. [b]OP's situation is that she is depressed (and maybe has other things going on like a too-inflexible job, or an unsupportive husband.) We also know that OP's mom is a jerk.[/b] OP, if I knew you I would totally take you out for a glass of wine! [/quote] Yes. OP, my advice is: 1. Consider whether you are depressed. 2. If you have a partner, talk to your partner about how to solve the problems TOGETHER. The child is not your (singular) child. The child is your (both of you's) child. BOTH of you are EQUALLY responsible for the care of the child, as well as for the maintenance of the household. If your partner says, "The way to solve your problem is for you to quit your job" -- well, I hope that your partner doesn't say that. 3. Stop talking to your mother. [/quote]
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