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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would confront him and tell him to stop staring. Don't smile, don't say it in a friendly tone, be firm and let him know it's not okay. [/quote] I agree with this. My family is from the same part of the world. Being passive and indirect will only enable the behavior, unfortunately. But I'll be honest, I don't know how to phrase a response.[/quote] Stare back when you find him staring at you, with a decidedly unfriendly look on your face. After the meeting, stop him in the hall and say him, "I noticed you were staring at me. Is there a problem? No? Then stop." Aggressive and direct is the way to go here, in every interaction with him. Do not allow him to intimidate you in any way. When he stops by your office with a question, do not smile, chat, or be welcoming in any way. Ask him directly what he wants, answer his question as tersely as possible, then turn away.[/quote]
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