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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I am not sure you mentioned how much he is sending them.

he should ask them if they can help him buy a house.

That might help send a message. When they say no, he can say, well I really need to consider priorities here. It seems link time to start saving for my family's future. What do you think? [/quote]

OP here. I agree. I don't know how much he helps his family and I do not think it is monthly or as much as other posters are suggesting. I know he has bought food and wine for them and paid some of their bills when they were in trouble. It seems to have stabilized now.[/quote]

That's ok then, those are his parents. He is probably worried about them and you should admire that.  Honestly I think he sounds great, be happy and simply learn to manage your money. [/quote]

OP here. A year or so ago, they were drowning and were about to lose their house. My BF helped out a lot then. These days he doesn't do much since they seem to be doing better. As far as I know his dad is still working. I'm just a little concerned because it appears that they have no savings for retirement. And if there is an emergency he would definitely have to help out. [/quote]

There will be another financial emergency. Life is all about how these things are handled. [/quote]

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