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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My SIL and BIL are divorced. My MIL invites SIL and children to family functions. My MIL also does things like take the children and SIL on vacations. She behaves as the grandmother of the children, because that is her role. My ex-SIL does use the children to negotiate things that benefit her like Christmas at a lovely resort when the kids really couldn't care less. But my MIL is a wonderful grandmother and since she can afford it does everything she can to maintain a good relationship with the mother of her grandchildren.

Whether or not we like ex-SIL is irrelevant. She's the mother of children we care very much for, and as such we will treat her with kindness and respect and as one of the family.

Your DH's ex wife is the mother of the In Laws grandchild. They are being mature and compassionate in their behavior. You should take notice of the example.[/quote]

Has your BIL remarried?  I think things should change once that happens.  [/quote]

Why should it change?  The ex-SIL is still the mother of their grandchild.  Whether or not your BIL remarries doesn't change that.  [/quote]

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