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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I think your feelings are valid. I also think you need to understand that you are projecting in the situation, if you are truly being honest and value all the things you say you do, then why are you not more motivated to find a different spouse and get out of your situation? Why could you not attract a more handsome, more impressive, more motivated spouse? You were really young when you married and maybe it is just a "starter marriage". Having kids will magnify your disgust of him a thousand times, having kids is hard and stressful and your patience will be much thinner. Choices you have - divorce and both of you move on, get therapy yourself for yourself and work on feeling better about yourself, or be unmotivated and accept the status quo, have kids and been 1000x times more miserable.[/quote]
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