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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Since when is it misogynistic to want to make a good impression in front of your  boss?

It's not everyday you get the opportunity to have dinner with your boss.

I've been feeling like we were growing a part for  a while now, and dinner just highlighted that.

I see my boss and his wife, and my colleagues and their spouses, specifically the husbands,  and my husband is the odd one out.

You can call me all the names you want, but that doesn't change my feelings. I honestly don't see how I'm any worse than any of the other  posters.

I'm not cheating on him. I'm not trying to hook up with my coworkers. I'm not denying him sex. 
All I want for him is step his game up a bit more, and realize that what he does impacts me, and apparently that makes me a cunt. Talk about misogyny...
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I don't think people are necessarily taking issue with the fact that you wish your husband dressed a little nicer.  I get that 100% and feel the same way.  My husband refuses to iron his clothes so he wears wrinkled button down shirts every day.  He also has a belly because he eats junk food and soda and no produce.  He is also shy and a little socially awkward, especially at first.  Other than that, he's pretty perfect.  Smart, funny, kind, compassionate, good father, loving husband.  He's my best friend and I love him.  Other people can take him or leave him.  I try to focus on the positive, but sometimes the negative does grate on me.

I think the difference between this and your post is that you seem to be focused on the negative, you didn't say much if anything positive about him, and you don't say you love him (which is a huge problem).  You need to figure out if you want to be with him for the rest of your life and if you should really be having kids with him.  It's only going to get worse from here.  Kids bring out all kinds of stress and make it much harder to connect, so you need to be on a SOLID foundation.

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