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[quote=Anonymous]This just gets my goat.  Some guys seem to want a woman who is absolutely wild and amazing in bed but they don't want her to have the sexual history most women require to develop all those amazing skills between the sheets.

OP, screw this guy (figuratively, not literally, he doesn't deserve sex with you at this point).  You didn't lie, you just didn't share details with him that he isn't entitled to.  Would it have been better if you'd stated up front that you don't do the kiss and tell sharing of past sexual activity?  Sure, but he also didn't ask a straight forward "have you done xyz" question, he asked a pretty loaded, judgy, question.  If you're comfortable with your past activity, why would you consider it "an embarrassment to our future"?

Also, just because you've done things in the past doesn't mean you are comfortable with or want to do them now and you don't owe him that.  He isn't entitled to get to perform every sex act with you that you've done with others.

Based on his reaction, he's probably going to use anything you do confide in him now against you.   IF you decide to proceed with this talk he wants to have, prepare to have everything you say weaponized and thrown back in your face.  And he's still probably going to dump you, just after a suitable amount of time filled with shame and nastiness towards you has passed.[/quote]

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