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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Have to agree with PP. It's your job, OP, to help your child deal with this without resorting to tears and exclusion. I don't mean to sound harsh but I'm struck by how upset your child got when you mentioned you might invite the child. Sure there are mean kids but at a party with the whole class your DC couldn't just avoid or ignore this bully?[/b] [quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't invite the bully. To hell with him.[/quote] You are talking about a SIX YEAR OLD CHILD. If you can't help your children learn to manage conflict at the age of [i]six[/i]….well, good luck to all. [/quote][/quote] This child's reactions shows what the bullying has already done. I posted earlier as the mom of a kid who had been bullied to the point of depression and threatened suicide. He's 24 now, and still dealing with the long term effects. OP your son's feelings are more important than the one kid who torments him. Since the suggestion of "having" to include this kid in his party brought about the reaction it did, do you see now the situation he's in? Worry about your own child before being all nicey nice to the kid who has put him in this situation. PLEASE. My whole approach now, no matter who it is.. is if you mistreat us? You're out. No politically correct inclusion... you will not be a part of our lives, or will be included as little as possible. [/quote]
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