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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did the conversation go, OP?[/quote]

OP here. So I spoke to him over the weekend. He was not angry or even bothered that I looked up his record. He was open about what happened both times. He said he didn't beat anyone up, he stayed with the women in both cases (though that wasn't super compelling to me), he's still friends with the second, and since the second incident nothing else happened.

First case was dismissed. He got convicted on the second because he didn't have an attorney and he thought the case was so ridiculous it was going to be thrown out. He said he should have pressed charges against her since she threatened him with a weapon but he didn't. He was the one who called the police, not her.

All that said, I don't think he has a DV problem per se, but probably has an anger problem. Now that I have at least more basic information I can talk to my therapist and continue to just see how it goes. It's not the end of the conversation by any means. I'm well aware some people here are not going to like my decision.  [/quote]

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